It seems that just when I am reaching my goals diet and fitness-wise, my aunt or my former best friend will say something like “you’re still top heavy” or “you’re losing your butt” or even “your left leg is bigger”. I know I shouldn’t care, but it really bothers me. I work really hard in my fitness regimen; and as anyone who has ever lost weight can attest, it’s hard to sacrifice things you love for the greater good. It’s like they don’t want me to feel good about myself. If they love me, why do they do that?